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Published on: 30 November 2021
Published by: Entangled: Amara
Type: standalone
Genre: Contemporary Romance
Author: Elle Cruz
Book Length: 368 pages
Read: 10 November 2021
Shelved: 12 November 2021
Rating: 5 / 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
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Synopsis
Claire Ventura is nothing like the poised and perfect heroines she reads about in her favorite romance novels. She’s a quirky, people-pleasing bookworm with a loving yet obliviously intrusive family and a passion for cookie decorating—all rolled into a five-foot-two Filipina American fueled by chamomile tea.
Then she meets Nate, billionaire CEO of a global tech company, the modern-day Prince Charming who sweeps her off her feet. Though he does his best to convince Claire that he’s genuinely head over heels for her, she knows he’ll soon realize she’s more underwhelming Plain Jane than a jet-setting socialite. And once he meets her family, if their initial questioning doesn’t scare him off, then their tendency to decide “what’s best for her” certainly will.
Between her whirlwind romance with Nate and her meddlesome family, Claire wishes she had a fairy godmother to guide her. But this is the real world in the twenty-first century, and the only way to get her happily ever after is by grabbing a firm hold of what she really wants—and letting her heart be her guide.
Review
First off, I appreciate and support authors who set the stage well before the story starts to give a better background on where they are coming from and help readers understand why they would react the way they do. Note that this is a Fil-Am writer, and I already feel connected with her, given that I am a Fil-Can (and Chinese) reader.
The staging of this book already hit many commonalities with my experiences.
This book talks about an introverted bookstore employee and baker-by-night named Maria Clara “Claire” Ilagan Ventura and a down-to-earth yet billionaire tech CEO, Nathaniel “Nate” Noruta, navigating the possibility of a relationship after a happenstance encounter. Will this relationship sustain the trials and tribulations of internal struggles, protective family members, and the Filipino courting culture?
Memorable Quotes From How To Survive a Modern-Day Fairy Tale: Dissected
“She gave birth to eleven children at home. Sometimes the midwife couldn’t get her in on time, and she had to birth them on her own.”
“Wow, how many grandkids does she have?” “Thirty-five.“
-> Filipino (and even Asian) families are known to be plentiful. They see children/kids as blessings – always a joy to have no matter what age. I love the truth in this statement and how proud Claire is of her Lola mothering and raising her children and guiding grandkids throughout her life, even after Lolo passed.
Although my family didn’t have as many great-grandkids as Claire’s, we are twenty-one grandkids to my grandmother, who birth five uncles and two aunties from my paternal side.
But two little obstacles stood in the way. One: mustering up the courage to actually leave her day job and follow her dream. And two: breaking the news to her traditional Filipino family that she would never pursue a job in medicine or science.
-> The biggest hurdle to success is believing that one’s passion will be enough to turn it into a profession. Claire’s fears and concerns are valid. But I was happy to see that even if there were “detractors” to her “dream job,” there are people like Nate and some family members who gave her the courage to explore and be brave.
The day Lola had taken a sharp decline from Alzheimer’s was the day apart of Claire’s heart died.
-> This hit home for me. I understood how Claire felt since grandmother also had the same issue and everything happening as her grandmother. Yes, I cried a bit here since I didn’t want to believe that this would happen in a gut-wrenching fashion given such a cute title.
Despite their differences, they loved one another fiercely. It was one of the things Lola had insisted upon. Family first. The Lord only gave you each other, Lola would say. That’s why you should not quarrel.
-> Family theme again – LOVE LOVE LOVE! Words of wisdom reign true – transcends time and space.
“I’m sorry to break it to you, sweetie, but you have to learn how to put aside your reservations and embrace the whole man.”
-> Note that even Claire had trouble wrapping around her emotional attraction with Nate. The insta-attraction is very Cinderalla-esque that it won me over. Filipinos love true love at first sight – and sometimes, even rational characters like Claire is not immune to the hope of finding her prince charming.
“If you worked hard, you could be like me. Lola and Lolo didn’t come all the way to America to see their future generations waste their time. Lola would be very disappointed in you.”
-> This statement is what people (not only parents) say to “guilt-trip” others to do what they wanted them in the first place. It is a form of psychological manipulation, and it had the full effect on Claire in the book. I felt so bad because I had to overcome a lot and “push back” people who use this technique in having me succumb to their wishes.
Claire couldn’t “fight back” to what is important to her until the very last parts of the book. Sadly, she had to go through so much heartache (also other characters in the book), but that’s what drives the story and learning from all the “bad choices” made previously.
Claire’s character development was slow because she sacrificed for so many people in the book, BUT she did grow and flourish to something beyond my expectations.
“Things are different now. People are meeting through apps and the internet, and a lot are even ending up married. You never know. This guy might be the one. But if your Spidey-sense starts tingling, get the h*ll out of there. And don’t be disappointed if he doesn’t look one hundred percent like his profile picture. As long as he looks at least seventy-five percent similar, it’s all good. That’ the threshold for catfishing.”
-> I couldn’t relate, BUT I was amazed at how Ro, Claire’s sister, got the Rules on Catfishing down to a specific percentage. I laughed as I re-read that passage and through the many times I saw profile photos before and now. Yes, there’s more filtering and “added touches” in photos these days compared to the past.
That was the moment she realized, with unwavering certainty, she was the start of her own modern-day fairy tale, and she’s found a hero who blew all the other prices out of the water.
-> In the Filipino culture, being courted is very important. The man would ask permission from the girl’s parents before showing any intention beyond friendship. Although Nate didn’t go through the traditional route, no one could fault Claire for not falling hard for Nate’s effort to work towards a relationship with her. To the point of making Claire’s priority his also.
She went into her room and logged into her laptop. A new shiny batch of orders and inquires waited for her. With numb determination, she went to work. It was strange how there was no joy in anything she did. There was no sense of excitement, no hope – Hope.
-> At some point, after reading that chapter, I cried ugly. It’s from this quote that the story turned from upward to a crash landing of epic proportion. I love how no one saw this coming after so many “highs” brought about by Claire and Nate. The angst and pain inflicted were subtle until it hits readers with a finality – a plot twist that one could see a way out. After that, another thing happens that will “pull the rug out” for readers. This story shows readers that although the story started like a fairy tale for Nate and Claire, real-life caught up, and it is NOT all “butterflies and rainbows.” Instead, it is hard work, vulnerability, emotions, and honesty.
**Note that there were many highlight quotes in my book copy, but I do not want to spoil the book. Some other points I want to mention are:-
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1.) This story is from a third-person – singular POV – Claire’s. It is not the POV I typically go for (unless it’s a mystery book), BUT for this story, it worked out so WELL! The technique enhances the story with the 180-degree twist that will catch readers off-guard and into an emotional tailspin. I have yet to recover from that episode, even after finishing this book.
2.) Even before meeting Nate, I believe Claire is very lost – to what she wants and who she wants to be. Claire’s complexity (a sister, a daughter, a peacekeeper, a dutiful grandchild, a bookstore employee by day, and an aspiring businesswoman at night) is because she wants to be everything to everyone at the expense of sacrificing her happiness. Being in Nate’s orbit forces her to decide what will matter most versus what others say or think about her. She dug deep to see what any woman at some point will ultimately have to decide on:- love or a career.
3.) I love Claire’s sisters, Ro and Sam. They were a hoot! Ro’s the carefree sister who is up-to-date with everything! Sam is the wise sister who warns all her sisters of the pitfalls of a relationship and falling too fast, mainly due to personal experiences. Granted Ro and Sam clash like there’s no tomorrow, I was happy to see them set aside their differences and help their sister when family support is needed. There were a lot of other cases, not Claire-Nate moments, that they needed to help their whole family with emergency and loss.
Overall, I enjoyed How To Survive a Modern-Day Fairy Tale immensely! The author did what she set out for me to do – to be swept away by the romance of Claire and Nate. The first part may seem far-fetch, but I LOVE it! The second part is when “reality comes in” and starts forcing the main characters to realize that it’s not a “real-life fairy tale” after all! The story might be “too incredible,” but I urge readers to get through at least sixty percent (60%) of the book to fully appreciate the author’s point that relationships are constant work, communication, open-mindedness, and a lot of patience.
This book is for readers who want their escapism and “fantastic stories” with a side of ugly cry moments and a HEA ending. This book achieved this goal and more in my eyes!
Themes: strong family ties, siblings love-hate relationship, true love, connections, self-worth / coming to terms / coming of age
Tropes: insta-love (“insta-everything”), Opposites Attract, Billionaire, Against-All-Odds, Serendipitous Encounters
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About the Author
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Elle Cruz is a writer of steamy contemporary romance. When Elle was a kid, she’d get in trouble on purpose to be sent to her room so she could read all day long. She thanks her lucky stars that her parents never thought to take books away from her when she was grounded. In a way, it was mom and dad’s fault for unintentionally cultivating a voracious reader and writer.
After earning her English degree from UC Irvine, Elle eventually went back to school to become a nurse. Apparently, she couldn’t get enough of learning because she went to grad school to earn her doctorate degree.
Elle is the daughter of immigrants. She is fiercely proud of her background as a second-generation Filipino-American. She is dedicated to carving out a permanent place for POC in mainstream publishing by contributing her voice to the growing list of diverse authors.
Elle lives in Southern California with her supportive husband and two wonderful kids. When she’s not writing, she likes to keep her body guessing with her two obsessions: cookies and working out.
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